Words of Light: Grace & Truth for Your Journey Home
In the pages of everybody’s memory book,
there’s bound to be
a little circle of people
(call them friends if you like,
though they didn’t always act like it)
that knew your
coming of age.
They’re the girls you did VBS with,
comparing sandals and sun tans
out of the sides of your eyes.
They’re the girls you sang with
and sleepovered with
and swam and dreamed and ate
an Entire Candy Pizza with,
The girls who rubbed your rough spots,
listened to your dreams
coaxed you into skipping to
silly rhymes
about boys and houses and
the delightfully distant future.
If you’re like me,
they’re the girls you gossiped with
and about
(cruel, no doubt),
but, perhaps, also part of becoming–
forming opinions, beliefs, personalities.
For us,
the years that followed brought chances to
shoot pucks together
wear the hideous teal chorus dresses together
go to MBS all the same winter
and transition
from tag-alongs to drivers
from students to wage-earners
from those looking up
to those looked up to.
Zinnias symbolize old friends we miss, an accidentally apt choice for my mother’s garden in 2020.
They’re the ones who taught me
four people raised
in exactly the same church
at exactly the same time
can be distinctly and altogether different.
We’re talking
plaid and pastels
ruffles and sage green here,
because
these things matter!
Hopefully, like me,
every now and then,
you gather that circle of women
round a table of food,
and you talk,
swapping stories,
entertaining babies,
eating all the potluck charcuterie
(and chocolate-covered coffee beans).
I look around,
startled by the seismic shift
symbolized in this–
not a one of the four of us
still wears the veil style of our youth,
not a one attends
the church that gave us
our default friendship
and no two of us
do church together anymore.
College, marriage, shifting priorities,
the call of God
have all taken us in different directions.
At times, the fault lines
have felt too large to cross;
yet from these places,
we come
and find
we’ve a lot more in common
than we ever knew.
We love Jesus.
We love our people.
We enjoy leisurely afternoons with iced coffee
and knowing where to find the best deal on summer sausage.
We care more about enjoying our moments
than driving the new vehicle
or serving all the food groups to Sunday company.
You might just find
the same sort of lace vest
in all of our closets,
because these things matter,
even now.
I LOVE this. This memoir is beautiful. đź’— You have such a way with words! Love sharing these memories with you!
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I’m so privileged to have grown up with you and still have you in my life!
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